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The Two Most Important Factors in Raising Children

I have concluded that the two most important factors necessary for success in raising a child are:

1- Establishing the existence of clearly defined and understood basic rules within the home.

These rules cannot be allowed for children to bypass or jump over without deterrent consequences that bring the child back to the right path.

2- Commitment to loving and being kind to children, encouraging and supporting them and giving them part of your time while providing the appropriate environment for their talents to flourish.

The following table summarizes the four types of fathers. The controlling and domineering father has a limited ability to show his love and affection for children and has a very high ability to establish strict rules and laws in the home. The neglectful and ignorant father tends to lack the ability to show his affection and tenderness and does not pay attention to setting family rules and laws and does not oblige anyone to implement them.

The tolerant and lenient father has a very great ability to show his love, tenderness and support for his children, but he lacks the ability to set laws and rules and set limits on the nature of behavior within the family. Finally, the fourth type of father, the loving and strict father, is the most capable of combining the establishment of fixed rules, foundations and limits in the family with loving communication full of respect, tenderness and support with his children.

A table summarizing the types of fathers and the characteristics of each of them:

- The controlling father

Love level - Low

Organizing children to set laws
and limits for them at home - High

- The ignorant father

Love level - Low

Organizing children to set laws
and limits for them at home - Low

- The tolerant father

Love level - High

Organizing children to set laws
and limits for them at home - Low