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Man is born, the most incapable of children among creatures... motherhood

Man was born, the most helpless of all creation

The man drops it a drop, and the mother continues to suffer from it for nine long months.

The newborn emerges as the most helpless of all newborns and the least prepared for life. If he leaves it for hours without care, he may die. The mother fulfills all of the demands of this care, how many, how complex, how many troubles the mother has during the day, how much she stays up and worries at night, staying up late while her foot sleeps.

- Al-Walid’s world, his mother’s world for five years

Five years old, the child does not know anything about his world other than his mother’s world.
Five years during which he is attached to the mother, and the mother is attached to him, and depending on this relationship is the validity or corruption of the budding boy’s formation.

The mother does not only feed, dress, and clean the child. And just as. It creates his body and his soul together. The growing boy makes his body good or bad, and he also makes his soul good or bad.

Even in animals, the newborn’s attachment to his mother is not just that of food, or drink, or just fulfilling the needs of the body, but rather other needs, which the newborn does not understand, but rather it is driven by nature and driven by instinct. One of these needs is to protect him from fear in his new world.

The duckling, when the egg hatches, is best able to gather its food on its own, with a negligible amount of help from its mother. It follows it wherever it goes, and with what reason? Seeking safety from fear.

- Chicken

And the chicken chick, hatching from eggs in hatcheries, has never seen a mother, nor felt the warmth of a mother, it moves the shiny thing in front of it, and it follows it exactly as it follows the mother. He thinks he is the mother, by instinct, so he follows, because in following her he protects himself from destruction. This is what the ferret says if asked, but the chick does not say so.

The monkey runs to his mother, who is made of cotton

The monkey, known as the Rhinus monkey, was raised after birth by a mother. They made its frame out of wire, wrapped it in cotton, made a head for it, and provided it with eyes that resembled the mother’s eyes. They feed the little newborn separately from her, and then he comes to the mother, who is motionless, and settles on her lap, just as he would have done if she had been alive.

They bring out to this newborn, the monkey, a cover made of cloth, and he begins to look suspiciously, then becomes extremely frightened, screams, and runs towards this mother, who is made of cotton, and runs to her, asking for protection, as he would have done if it were a living mother.

We have led all of this to say that the relationship of a newborn with human beings is not just a relationship with food and drink, the body’s needs, and the functions of the organs, but rather it is relationships related to other needs of life, including the present and the future.

A man's personality is shaped by his mother in the child who will become a man

The child, every child, like the adult man and adult woman, has a mind that has been functioning since birth. Days and months pass and his awareness strengthens. Consciousness is both apparent and hidden. A child's consciousness is like an adult man's consciousness: experiences enter him visually and audibly, then they enter their treasures into the subconscious consciousness and remain there for many years. The child's first years are crucial years in shaping the child's personality, including what these treasures will contain in the subconscious. The first factor in determining what these closets are, what they are, and how they are created, is the mother, the child’s primary companion, an almost always constant companion.

It is connected to the instinct of a mother who is impatient, and it is connected to the instinct of a child who screams, fearing his mother leaving him, for fear of separation and loss.

Psychologists believe that much of youth takes place in childhood during these first five years.

(Two pictures: The first picture is of a child from a rhesus monkey, who had no mother. She lived on her mother’s lap, which was made of cotton. She began to look at a stuffed bear, which children play with, as it approached her.)

(A child of a rhesus monkey. She lost her mother, so they made a mother for her out of cotton. She would lie in her lap whenever she finished eating. The guiding instinct rules when the mind does not guide.)

Motherhood is not an easy study

Motherhood in life in general, therefore, does not have to be mitigated. Motherhood is the origin of the universe, and the origin of complex life in its various degrees on the surface of this earth.

(And the second picture is of the same little monkey girl, and she was overcome with fear of the approaching bear. When the fear overcame her, she jumped up to her mother’s chest, which was made of cotton, just as if her mother were made of flesh and bone.)

But the most difficult of mothers is the human mother.
A mother in the desert is one thing.
The mother is one thing in civilization.

Badia printed. Civilization is made, and for this reason it is not enough in a made civilization to have what mothers have, according to nature, imprinted methods according to nature.

A mother in the city has a greater duty. In this created city, she must make of the children what is consistent with this city, according to what its scholars have produced and produce every year, of statements related to the upbringing of children.
Motherhood is a study.

The mother is not only a carrying vessel, nor only a breastfeeder, a nourisher and a cupper, and a player with her child. It forms the man, it forms his psychological system, this small one that will grow and grow and become that large psychological system. Science has revealed many of these matters.
There are many of them, many published in Western languages.

- Mother, mother and wife, at the same time

The duties of motherhood I mentioned, I mentioned some of them. We must not forget these duties of a wife.

The mother is exhausted in working for her child, and forgets and neglects her husband, and some men flee. A man is jealous even of his child. This is what psychologists say, and experts say. I believe in what they say. I believe that this jealousy is permissible, because a man’s sense of paternity is much weaker than a woman’s sense of motherhood. As well as the child’s sense of filiation to his father. The child's relationship with his father grows through practice. The child becomes accustomed to his mother’s husband, after his father died, just as he was accustomed to his father if he had lived, and to that extent.

The duties of motherhood and the duties of husbands are two conflicting things. As for motherhood and marriage, a decrease in this is an increase in the other, and an increase in this is a decrease in the other, and the woman distributes her duties between them equally.

How bad family relationships have become because of the mother’s greater care for the child, and because of her less care for the husband, and the husband loves to see his wife as he saw her for the first time, and she is a charming virgin. And far from it.

These are life roles that a man must adapt to. A woman should not forget too much.

The maternity device has limited power

And a woman who is not a mother.
A woman is not called a mother unless she has given birth to a child.

The maternity device, which is made, has limited power and is not made of steel. He is made of flesh, blood, and nerves. One child makes it in one year, then he must rest for years.

Pregnancy and childbirth are an arduous experience. Her husband's mother complained to me that he wanted to have many children. She said: It would not be better for men to get pregnant once, so they should not go to extremes in asking for children.

A man said in defense: It is nature taking its course, and it is the one that accepts the creation of child after child. A man who was considered by the few was present. He said: If we had followed nature, men and women would have walked the earth naked, as the clothes are manufactured, but if we had left the hair and nails to grow long, the same applies to the prints of mustaches, beards, and bruises that nature brings, but we repel it with the manufactured drug.

I said, asking him: How many children would you like? .
He said: Two fill the void we leave when we die, and a third we take care of when time betrays us.
Another said: I am not satisfied with anything but ten, and with ten comes pride.
The first asked: And the alimony?
The younger said: I produce and God provides, and the older bears the burden of the younger.
The first said: So, it is a generation that inherits poverty to a generation that comes after it. For the mother, weakness and illness, and the consumption of youth before years and lives are consumed. Your woman is the mother of a child.
The woman withers, so quickly she will be replaced.
I said: It is enough for you, this one. It is enough for you that every difference is a mercy. If it were not for black, there would not be white, and if it were not for the two extremes, the colors between them would not be apparent.

- The mother is the pillar of the family

Whenever I think about society, any society, I find that society cannot exist except through the family. The family can only be with the wife. The wife will not satisfy the demands of femininity except through motherhood.

And look what the days have done to the family. With motherhood, I find that the mother has done wonders. I did more than I could handle, whether willingly or by force.

The winning man, there is no doubt about that.

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